Why Do I Love You ?
November 19, 2009 – 12:21 pm
Love is patient, love is kind. It has no envy, nor it boasts itself and it is never proud. It rejoices over the evil and is the truth seeker. Love protects; preserves and hopes for the positive aspect of life. Always stand steadfast in love, not fall into it. It is like the dream of your matter of affection coming true.Love should be experienced and not just felt. The depth of love can not be measured. Look at the relationship between a mother and a child. The mother loves the child unconditionally and it can not be measured at all.
A different dimension can be attained between any relationships with the magic of love."I love you". These three words can change somebody’s life. At least when they are meant from the heart. Love is one of the key ingredients, and an important value in life. They say that only the lucky ones get love in life.These "reasons why I love you" are what differentiates love, from common run of the mill attraction! Also, I believe, that in true love, you need to be able to pin point the reasons for love. So, if you find all these reasons in your feelings for the person, it is most likely, love! Also check out these signs of being in love and what is Love?, for help.
- You annoy me at times. But, I still long for you when you are not around. You have the ability to get to me. Your stupid antics make me smile, laugh as well as get angry. But, even when I pretend to be angry or annoyed, I know that I just want you by my side. Your company is worth all the embarrassment in the world.
- Because of the splendour of loving like that. Because of the totality of it. I was made whole. It was shocking, wonderful, even painful at times to be so everything, so all at once. That was how we came to be married, because one and one don’t make two in that condition — they make one.
- Because when we first met we danced. That was such joy, to move together like that; to tell our story to each other through movement, through eyes meeting, and through open mouthed pleasure. So much clearer than words. So much in a glance, or in a quick touch and tumbled bodies, and the silent standing and knowing.
This section has two parts. The first one for women and the second for men.
Reasons for Why I Love Him
He protects me, physically and emotionally and I always feel safe around him. When he sees me walking through a crowd, I see his face light up. He looks at me with love and not lust. Yes, I know he longs to touch me, but he never forced his desires over my comfort. He doesn’t call me sexy, or hot, he calls me beautiful. What’s more, when he calls me that, I feel beautiful!
Reasons for Why I Love Her
She is feminine, but not feeble. I know that our interests don’t always match, but she makes every attempt to give my interests a chance. When I walk into a room, I see a sparkle in her eyes. She is always a lady when around my friends, but only I know the child inside her. When she looks into my eyes, I can feel her probing into my soul, knowing my deepest fears and thoughts. She knows I am "all man", but she still accepts it when I get childish, and cares for me when I am sick. She is beautiful!
- You are always there when I need you. Not that I only call you when I need you, or that I use you. But, you have an ability to see beyond my self-protective "I don’t need help" stance. You see that I need help, and you are there. No questions, no expectations, no demands. Sometimes, you force me to take your help. It angers me, but I know you mean well.
- You introduced me to all your friends. Not because I was particularly awesome, but because you believed I was. You bragged about me to your friends and kept stealing glances all the way. You prepped me before I met them, and held my hand when you thought I would get nervous. After meeting all your friends, you told me how great I was. I saw you call your friend later (when you thought I was asleep), and say that "I don’t believe I finally found love!". I was touched!
- Because we love each other. Yes that is a strange word — love. What does it mean? Does it mean we feel emotions for each other? Well, yes! But it’s not just that. Does it mean we want to share with each other, to talk, to make love, tell secrets and share confidences, give meaningful things, share a bath, call, give time to? Yes, yes, but there’s more.


