Why Do I Love You ?

November 19, 2009 – 12:21 pm

Love is patient, love is kind. It has no envy, nor it boasts itself and it is never proud. It rejoices over the evil and is the truth seeker. Love protects; preserves and hopes for the positive aspect of life. Always stand steadfast in love, not fall into it. It is like the dream of your matter of affection coming true.Love should be experienced and not just felt. The depth of love can not be measured. Look at the relationship between a mother and a child. The mother loves the child unconditionally and it can not be measured at all.

A different dimension can be attained between any relationships with the magic of love."I love you". These three words can change somebody’s life. At least when they are meant from the heart. Love is one of the key ingredients, and an important value in life. They say that only the lucky ones get love in life.These "reasons why I love you" are what differentiates love, from common run of the mill attraction! Also, I believe, that in true love, you need to be able to pin point the reasons for love. So, if you find all these reasons in your feelings for the person, it is most likely, love! Also check out these signs of being in love and what is Love?, for help.

  • You annoy me at times. But, I still long for you when you are not around. You have the ability to get to me. Your stupid antics make me smile, laugh as well as get angry. But, even when I pretend to be angry or annoyed, I know that I just want you by my side. Your company is worth all the embarrassment in the world.

  • Because of the splendour of loving like that. Because of the totality of it. I was made whole. It was shocking, wonderful, even painful at times to be so everything, so all at once. That was how we came to be married, because one and one don’t make two in that condition — they make one.

  • Because when we first met we danced. That was such joy, to move together like that; to tell our story to each other through movement, through eyes meeting, and through open mouthed pleasure. So much clearer than words. So much in a glance, or in a quick touch and tumbled bodies, and the silent standing and knowing.

This section has two parts. The first one for women and the second for men.

Reasons for Why I Love Him
He protects me, physically and emotionally and I always feel safe around him. When he sees me walking through a crowd, I see his face light up. He looks at me with love and not lust. Yes, I know he longs to touch me, but he never forced his desires over my comfort. He doesn’t call me sexy, or hot, he calls me beautiful. What’s more, when he calls me that, I feel beautiful!

Reasons for Why I Love Her
She is feminine, but not feeble. I know that our interests don’t always match, but she makes every attempt to give my interests a chance. When I walk into a room, I see a sparkle in her eyes. She is always a lady when around my friends, but only I know the child inside her. When she looks into my eyes, I can feel her probing into my soul, knowing my deepest fears and thoughts. She knows I am "all man", but she still accepts it when I get childish, and cares for me when I am sick. She is beautiful!

  • You are always there when I need you. Not that I only call you when I need you, or that I use you. But, you have an ability to see beyond my self-protective "I don’t need help" stance. You see that I need help, and you are there. No questions, no expectations, no demands. Sometimes, you force me to take your help. It angers me, but I know you mean well.  

  • You introduced me to all your friends. Not because I was particularly awesome, but because you believed I was. You bragged about me to your friends and kept stealing glances all the way. You prepped me before I met them, and held my hand when you thought I would get nervous. After meeting all your friends, you told me how great I was. I saw you call your friend later (when you thought I was asleep), and say that "I don’t believe I finally found love!". I was touched!

  • Because we love each other. Yes that is a strange word — love. What does it mean? Does it mean we feel emotions for each other? Well, yes! But it’s not just that. Does it mean we want to share with each other, to talk, to make love, tell secrets and share confidences, give meaningful things, share a bath, call, give time to? Yes, yes, but there’s more.

Relationship Tips For Girls

October 20, 2009 – 10:48 am

Though a relationship begins with an excitement from both sides, it may be a bit more risky for girls than it can be for men. Men are less bound in the social confinements than the women. Again women are hurt more easily and take it longer to recuperate than men, the reason why they should be careful about choosing and dealing with their guy. However, these tips are for the more long-term type of girls. If you are someone of a flirting type, you may play it your way.

Giving relationship advice for girls is a big ask, because young girls are often a tad too hasty in the matters of the heart.Young girls often over-dramatize the happenings in their lives and so if relationships are not handled properly, they may leave permanent scars on their minds. So if you are a young lady, treading down newly blooming love paths, here’s some relationship advice for girls that should help you out.Relationship advice for girls is hence more tricky and complicated, with the advisor constantly treading on eggshells. But this relationship advice for girls is different, for it is a one way article and not a two way relationship counseling.

 Prerequisites:
 The trick of successful relationships lies in being emotionally mature and independent. Do not develop an obsession with finding Mr. Right. You’re still young and you have a long way to go with a lots of things to learn. The idea is to keep a neutral mind, for when you’re not looking is when you’re most likely to find him. Know what you want, because if you’re the one confused, how can your partner not be. Varying your demands will lead you to lose ‘good men’. Most of the times, a relationship goes wrong, not because the guy is wrong, but because you’ve changed your criteria. Leave it flexible and you never know, maybe the guy you have is the perfect one for you, though he doesn’t fit in with your initial Mr. Right criteria

Signs Alerts
:It is important that while you keep an eye open to look for his signs and signals, don’t confuse him with conflicting ones from you. The key relationship advise for girls that have a crush on someone is to give it a fair shot and not color the relationship with preconceived notions of what should and shouldn’t be. Oh I forgot the most important of all things, don’t cling (easier said than done). Let him have a life apart from you and let him know that you have one too. No one likes constricting relationships and so make sure that you give each other enough breathing space.

Talk to him as an equal. There is a thin line between assertive and affirmative. Make sure that you maintain it. Be more than a wallflower and make sure it is visible in everything you do. The very minute you let a man think that he can erase your voice with his, it will be very difficult to convince him otherwise. It is a genetic flaw with men, they tend to take once offs as something that can happen all the time. So unless you wish to be pushed around, be yourself when you meet him (and when you’re yourself make sure you tell him so) and try not to be too subservient (and if you are, don’t make it a habit).

Other Tips:

Guys don’t like quiet girls. Neither do they like noisy girl. So, speak and open out, but don’t read novels into his ears. And reveal your true nature before him.

If you like a guy and you know he likes you, and nothing is going ahead due to shyness, just say it to him. Some guys can’t read signals well.

So after all this, I hope you’ll heed to, from among these, what you feel reasonable. Good luck ahead.


Sexually Transmitted Dieases Test

September 24, 2009 – 9:44 am

Anybody who is suspecting to be infected with a sexually transmitted disease would like to know the real status of his or her health condition in private. This is because having STDs is already a stigmatized image in the society. If others hear that you are in the process suspecting about your health condition, people may have alerady judged you. However, despite all the troubles you may have to go through, you still have to take an STD test. This will confirm your suspicions of beign infected with STDs. It may be true or not anyway. The important thing is that you know what your real health status is. Whether positive or not, by taking the test, one may know what’s the next step to do.

Many people are reluctant in going to a clinic or hospital to have an STD test. Aside from fear that people may judge them just because of the test and results, others are not prepared or are afraid of what the results may give them. They do not exactly know what to do if it turns out to be positive. However, one must take the test. An STD doesn’t just go away by itself. It can cause general body infections or can directly affect your reproductive and sex organs. If one gets tested right away, treatment will be given to him or her promptly. This is to prevent one from suffering all those complications that STDs can give.

Today, one may opt to take a private STD testing. There are a few online sites that you can contact and order test kits for various STD’s. You follow the directions and send your kit to the private lab, and they will send you your results. This is a great way to test in full privacy; however, these kits only cover the common STDs like herpes, Chlamydia, and gonorrhea. For other STDs, you have to order another type of test kit which is more expensive than the usual ones. Aside from this, there are a lot of fraud acts online. If you are careful, you might end up buying a fake product.

There are private STD testing clinics that offer very good testing services and promise confidentiality. The test done in private clinics may cover all STD testing. It can detect even the simplest type of STD. aside from this, these clinics are also offering reproductive health screenings, counseling and treatment.

After the diagnosis, treatment should always follow immediately. Treatment will depend on the type of disease that has infected the patient. The period of time for the treatment will also depend on how severe the disease is when it was detected. There are several STD that can be cured, so if these are detected early, the disease will be eliminated right away. For incurable diseases, treatment and medications are given to delay the effects of the disease. This will preempt the spread of the virus to the other body organs of the patient. The patient will also be required to have regular checkups and testings. This will help in monitoring the development of the treatment being given to him or her.