How To Seduce Women
January 19, 2009 – 12:40 pmWomen want to be seduced before you have sex with them - not just at the point of sex. Being SEDUCED is about being flattering, attentive, affectionate and even funny but all of it is done with poise.
Seducing Women is Easier Than it Sounds
Gentleman - that is very important write it down. Men are so focused on what moves they themselves are making they don’t analyze how those moves might be interpreted by others. Women are aware of who is making what moves and why all the time and they have seen your particular moves before you can bet on that. 
So when you are being patient make sure you are being original as well.
Poise suggests "control" and seducing a woman must contain a combination of having control and forfeiting it as well. You can show this balance the moment you ask her out - example: "I would love to take you out to dinner on Thursday, you pick the type of food and I will pick the restaurant". In essence you are telling her you are taking her out but she will get to eat what she wants. Apply this formula to many things and you will slowly seduce her by flattering her with CHOICE not just compliments. This all sounds subtle because it is. When you EMPOWER, she IS being seduced.
These are the preliminary behaviors of seduction - being a gentleman, treating her as an equal, empowering her and being patient with ALL of her decisions. Men quickly forget that when a woman does want to do something HE wanted to do that it was HIM who came up with it. So think about what you are offering her to ENTICE her.
Whispering
In my opinion WHISPERING is the cornerstone of seduction. You can say almost anything and make it sound sexy when you "whisper it". Sometimes it is what you don’t say when you whisper that says it all. Example Whisper: "I can’t wait to be alone with you later".
It is sentences like that one that will STIR her thoughts and feelings and make her excited to hear more from you the next time. Whisper to her over the phone when she is at work and she will blush beet red and call you back so much her fingertips will be raw.
Keeping all your traits equally packaged and poised will give her clues to how balanced and patient you are. Men are far more in a rush to get into a woman’s pants than a woman into a man’s, so keep that in mind when you are trying to seduce her too quickly - there is no such thing.
There is a fine line men must walk to really seduce a woman into believing that she should go to bed with you. This fine line of seduction is most effective for men when men realize that women want to go to bed with men who don’t look desperate to get laid. When seducing a female you must use every trick in the trade to make her feel important, sexy, intelligent and feminine but most importantly she must feel like you don’t have any trick of the trade.
